From feeling lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of what to do next to having a clear, step-by-step guide that gives you confidence, direction, and peace of mind.
I'm Ashleigh
I know that navigating widowhood can feel overwhelming and isolating.
In 2020, my world shattered in an instant. I lost my husband in a tragic accident while I was 17 weeks pregnant with our triplets. In one devastating moment, I went from being a wife excitedly planning our growing family to a widow facing the unimaginable: preparing to raise three babies alone while drowning in grief.
In those early days, I was overwhelmed by a mountain of paperwork and decisions I had no idea how to make. Who do I call first? What forms do I need? How do I even begin to explain this to people? The practical tasks felt impossible when I could barely breathe through the pain.
But over time, I discovered that even the smallest next step brought me a little relief - a little calm, clarity, and confidence. Each task I completed helped me feel more grounded and more capable of moving forward.
That’s why I created The Confident Widow Checklist. It’s the exact guide I wish I’d had; a simple, step-by-step roadmap to help you through those first overwhelming weeks, so you don’t have to figure it out alone.
You're reading this feeling completely lost, heartbroken, maybe even numb, and wondering "how did I get here?" and "what's the first step?"
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→ You might be getting through each day (just) but you're drowning in a mountain of tasks you don't understand - paperwork, phone calls, legal requirements - and you have no idea what's urgent versus what can wait.
→ Well-meaning people keep asking "what can I do to help?" but you don't even know what needs to be done, let alone what to ask for.
→ You're terrified of making the wrong decisions or missing something important because your grief brain can barely think straight.
→ Every day that passes without a clear plan feels like you're falling further behind, adding guilt and anxiety to your already overwhelming grief.
After losing my husband whilst 17 weeks pregnant with triplets, I learned that the difference between drowning in tasks and moving forward with purpose comes down to one thing:
knowing exactly what needs to be done first.
The Confident Widow Checklist is more than a list of tasks - it’s a roadmap that takes you from shock and overwhelm to calm, clarity, and confidence.
Instead of facing a mountain of decisions and not knowing where to begin, you’ll have a clear, step-by-step guide that gently shows you what to focus on first, what can wait, and what comes later.
Inside you'll discover a simple three-stage pathway:
Black = Crisis Mode
What needs to be done immediately, when everything feels most overwhelming
Yellow = Stabilising
What can wait until the first waves of shock begin to settle
Blue = Rebuilding
What comes later, when you’re ready to plan ahead and rebuild
With this roadmap, you’ll stop second-guessing and start moving forward with greater ease. You’ll know what to do, when to do it, and how to give yourself grace along the way.
It’s not just about paperwork and decisions — it’s about giving you back a sense of control, direction, and peace of mind during the hardest chapter of your life.
Here's What You'll Get With
The Confident Widow Checklist:
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✓ Immediate clarity when everything feels overwhelming – Know exactly what needs your attention first, without second-guessing.
✓ Space to focus on healing – Handle what can’t wait efficiently, so you can put your energy where it matters most.
âś“ Â Peace of mind that nothing important is forgotten - Comprehensive coverage from legal requirements to self-care reminders
✓ A foundation for moving forward – Your essential first step before diving deeper into rebuilding your life with confidence.
From Overwhelm to Clarity
Right now, it may feel like you’re carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders — decisions to make, forms to fill, people to notify, and all of it happening while your heart is breaking.
The Confident Widow Checklist was designed to gently lift that weight and give you a clear path forward.
With this guide, you’ll move:
From unsure of what to do first → to knowing exactly where to start
From scattered and second-guessing → to calm, focused steps you can trust
From overwhelmed and alone → to supported by a clear roadmap
This isn’t about rushing your grief. It’s about giving you the confidence and clarity to face each day, one step at a time.
Here's What's InsideÂ
your complete 17-page roadmap, organised by priority:
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Black: Crisis Mode
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"I can barely function, what absolutely must be done?"
- Immediate family notifications and arrangements for children and/or pets
- Essential legal and medical calls
- Securing important documents and emergency cash
- Protecting your energy during the most difficult time
Yellow:Â Stabilising
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"I'm getting through each day, what's next?"
- Funeral planning with family support
- Financial notifications (banks, insurance, Centrelink)
- Employment matters and essential document gathering
- Building your support system
Blue: Rebuilding
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"I have some capacity now, what can I tackle?"
- Official government notifications and transfers
- Legal and estate planning tasks
- Digital account management and household systems
- Self-care planning and long-term support
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If this checklist doesn't provide the clarity and direction you need, we'll refund every cent. Your healing journey is too important to risk on something that doesn't help.
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30-day money-back guarantee. If you're not satisfied with The Confident Widow Checklist, email us within 30 days for a full refund.
Disclaimer
The Confident Widow Checklist is general information and should not replace professional legal, financial, or medical advice. Please consult appropriate professionals for your specific circumstances.
